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• My husband and I have been arguing for a little under a year about mainly the same issues. Our arguments can escalate to offensive verbal fights, which why I delay as much as I can discussing our problems especially that I cannot find a solution that will comfort both of us. I see myself compromising even though it will hurt me professionally, financially, and even mentally. I know that at one point we will have to reach a solution by force or by choice. My husband mentions separating usually when he is at the peak of an argument but after it, he would say he does not wish for it. When we got married, almost two years ago, we agreed that we will never go to bed angry at each other and we always prayed before bed together, but those two things changed. We also used to pray before bed on the phone when we were engaged but now, we barely pray together and if I bring it up, I do not get an encouraging response. I am full of mistakes and I admit it but when I try to confess my mistakes to my husband. I am lost, worried, and feel like our relationship is getting weaker and weaker.