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I was wondering if a person could become a monk if he follows the guidelines and completes the vows in a good manner?

Following the guidelines and making the vows are very important, but these are the outer steps. What is more important and needs thorough self-examination as well as wise counsel from your Father Confessor is to know where your heart is and what God's will is for your path of salvation. Thus, continue with steadfastness in following the canon your Father Confessor set for you. Ask his permission and the abbot's permissions as well to allow increasing your stay at the monastery. For example, if you usually visit for a few days, try to stay for a week, two weeks, or a few weeks. If you usually go for a few weeks, try to stay for a month, two months, or a few months. While you are at the monastery, make sure that you have a set schedule for your personal prayers and services, share in the chores as permitted, and never neglect the prayers and praises of the monastery. May the Lord reveal His will for you and bless your life.