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• Does the sacrament of Matrimony put restrictions on the sexual practices a couple may do to show their love to one another; particularly, the question of oral sex integrity or foreplay? From what I understand, the reason for any type of sexual activity is for either procreation or intimacy. Is there a wrong or right way of making love? Does the Holy Bible say anything about making love a certain way and how literally do we take it? What age is appropriate for kids to be introduced to issues about sex, dating, kissing, opposite sex intimacy?
• Is oral sex, within the bonds of marriage, permitted in the Orthodox Church?
• St. Augustine taught that sex is always a sinful act even within marriage and should only be allowed for procreation. What is the Church's view in this matter?
• We are a newly married couple and would like to know when we are not 'permitted' to have sexual relations with each other (i.e. is it during all fasting days. How long before taking communion or before serving as a deacon and serving at the altar, etc...).
• What is the correct spiritual, biblical, Orthodox and ecclesiastical concept of sexual relations in marriage? How should a prospective spouse view this concept?