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I've started a new job which can be really time-consuming. I am doing my best to stick with my spiritual canon of bible reading, agpeya, and spiritual books. However, one thing I find lacking is good deeds. I have a strong desire to serve others, but I am lost as to how and when and where be the opportunities. I have been speaking with some people about setting up a free medical clinic as one idea. But on a daily basis, where do I look to help others? I feel like I waste my time when I am with friends, simply laughing and joking with no purpose behind our gatherings.

Also, I feel like a spiritual friend is really helpful in growing in the spiritual life. I often felt that by speaking with the brothers and monks in the monastery when I would visit. But, I have not had the same opportunities here. Do you think a spiritual friend is beneficial or rather a hindrance to the spiritual life?

I am glad that you are working hard on maintaining your prayers and readings. These will be great blessings in your life. Continue to pray that our Lord will direct your heart towards a special service. Once you feel that God has revealed a specific ministry for you, start by researching what kind of commitment it will involve and dedicate the time that you can to it with all sincerity, so that you may grow with the service, rather than taking on too much at one time. Spiritual companionship will come in due time. There is no need to rush into any friendships too soon because these relationships may not be what they appear at the onset. When you have time, try to take brief retreats to refresh and nourish yourself spiritually.